Hi Nokomis
Welcome to the forum 
Hope you find lots of useful help and tips on here. We do have a couple of females on the spectrum in here as well as parents of girls with a diagnosis or in the process of assessment.
My youngest son has a diagnosis (he is now 17) and I have a few other relatives on the spectrum, two of them girls, one aged 21 and the other 5.
Do let us know if you have any specific questions or want to chat about anything in particular.
Josie - Community Champion