Pokemon!

Hi,

Does anyone else have children that live their life for Pokemon?  My oldest, who is eleven and has Asberger's, have been obsessed by them since he was about 4.  My daughter also loves them but she isn't comsumed by them the way Ben is.  He must know all the pokemon names, type, moves etc.  He even makes movies with his pokemon teddies and posts them on youtube. He wakes up thinking of them and goes to sleep dreaming of them.  We sometimes have 'no pokemon' days and after he spends a couple of hours moping about, I think he is actually more 'normal' (sorry but can't think of a better word).

I am not looking for advice, just interested to see if anyone else has pokemon in their lives like we do!

Thanks

Karen 

 

LOL Karen I have three kids all teenagers now and all have been obsessed by Pokemon at one time or another. In fact they all still play the various DS games. My oldest is almost 20 and both he and his RAF buddies play Pokemon interactively. My youngest is almost 15 and was diagnosed with Aspergers when he was about 7/8 years old and he still has all his Pokemon figures and cards and, as you say, knows all about them, their power levels, their special tactical moves etc. He was also the same the dinosaurs before Pokemon came on the scene and still knows all the dinosaurs and their statistics. He is now into matters scientific and has become a Trekkie, being fanatical about Star Trek (and Star Wars). He also had a Thomas the Tank Engine phase when he was a toddler and had all the engines and several different kinds of tracks for them, all the videos and books.

Josie - Community Champion

I think my husband would like Ben to become a Trekkie! Ben knew every different type of train at the age of 3 and he used to carry a train catalogue to nursery. He knew all their speeds and his favourite was Merchant Navy Pacific and Virgin trains! Loves dinosaurs and sharks and can name all of them. He is also into Endangered Species at the moment. His love has always been Pokemon though. When you think about all the information our kids brains take in and retain, they are truly brilliant. Just wish they could learn to turn off their active brains sometimes and relax!

Hi Karen
My son has never been into Pokemon but from a very early age was absolutely obsessed with Thomas Tank, he has every train you can think of, knows all the names, has different tracks, tons of books, we have Thomas tables, chairs everything in our house. He is only just beginning to grow out of it a bit but we will still have days where we're building train tracks again. He has had sort of mini obsessions like Spongebob and Bob the Builder but they never were as intense as the Thomas one and didn't last near as long.

Tracy - Community Champion

Hi Tracy

LOL reminds me of Tom. I actually got Tom to part with all his engines, tracks, books and videos .... he gave them to my cousin's son who was a Thomas addict as well. The only thing we kept was a first edition of all the stories in one big Thomas encyclopaedia sized book!!!

This has just jogged my memory .... I couldnt remember the last thing I saw in the cinema and now I do ..... it was the Thomas film which must be ten years ago!!!!

Josie - Community Champion

Hi Karen,

We were just chatting in the social thread about how we should start up a discussion about obsessions...We havent had the Pokemon one either here...we have dogs/scooby doo with Josie (from about the age of 4 and she is now 11). We had Dinosaurs, Transformers and now star wars with Jack who is 4 and I have a feeling could eventually go down the Pokemon route! We also had various collections of things with Hollie and also interests in anything scientific (global warming, the creation of the earth) and currently, although she is still very interested in science, she is completely obsessed with anything to do with Vampires.....so quite a range!

One thing that we found helped was not to try and stop it or resrict it as that seemed to have the opposite effect on our kids, but if it got to the point that it was taking over, we would bombard them with their interest (sort of reverse psychology) and it made it seem less desperate to them to loose themselves in their obsession world...sort of taking the power out of it if that makes sense?!....to be honest, Hollie has been through such a hard time recently, I actually think that without her interest and fact gathering, she wouldnt have got through it quite so well!! I never thought Id say this...but I have a lot to thank vampires for! (and I quite like Twighlight and Vampire Diaries myself!)

Claire - Community Champion

Infact, does anyone know why the supernatural and sci fi are familiar themes for special interests with our children?

A Paediatrician told me once that Thomas the tank was apealing to children with autism because of the tracks having nice straight lines on them and the faces on the trains are very simple to read....not sure though!

Claire - Community Champion

Claire, I agree. Ben has had hard time at school recently and I'm sure being able to escape helps.
Never thought of trying the reverse psychology - will have to remember that. I think our 'no pokemon days' are for the family's benefit as much as Ben's. It is usually in the school holidays and we cannot take any more talk about it and Ben cannot think of anything else.
Ben also likes vampires, loves Buffy (so do I) and twilight films - I have read the first three books and quite enjoyed them.
Not sure why the kids latch on to supernatural stuff, maybe its because it is so different to normal life and is an escape?!
Its interesting to know all the different obsessions.
Thanks Karen

hi yah yes i can totally relate to pokemon, jade lives and breathes pokemon especially on her ds, to be honest it was an obession at the beginning this was 5 years ago, then for 3 months we thought we were moving on but no we have cards books. ds games the works i dont know what it is with pokemon, to me its like her little world where no one can come in its just pokemon and jade

Hi,

We cope with my eldest obsessions by making sure he has a leisure time rota... he is not allowed to spend any longer than 1 hr on any activity.. this makes sure he does not spend all day every day on the same thing. He will choose 3 or 4 things and rotate them.. we use a timer to make sure he keeps track of time :)  

Leanne - Community Champion

HI Karen,

The insecent talking did get to be a problem especially with Hollie, but she worked out herself that once I said enough! she would go and research and write her thoughts down to get them out of her head....she really cant move on without clearing it all out first...I remember her being asked once, ''what came first? the chicken or the egg?'' well, can you imagine how soemone can talk about that one question for hours and hours on end??! Eventually, we gave her a note book and let her get it all out onto the paper....once out, she solved the question and moved on!

Hi Jade,

That is another thing...DS! Jack could play the DS at the age of 2 and when he was 3 I asked him what he wanted for his birthday and he said ''an x-box 360 and a laser gun''!! Well I did ask! He can play any games console and he is only 4 and I have no idea how that happened! He is learning the computer at the moment too, although it is just cause and effect stuff, like click here and this happens, not typing etc....I remember once his 20 yr old cousin passing over his DS to Jack when Jack was 3 so Jack could get him up to the next level on his game he was playing! One thing it has really helped though is his hand-eye co-ordination! It is spot on, I just wonder if this is one of their special skills...I mean if they are slow to develop in other areas, but they are way ahead in things like this?

Claire - Community Champion